When asked about why students date, a common answer is “to find out what they want in a future spouse.” They want to know what they like or don’t like. However, can’t you know this before you date anyone?

Have you ever made a list of what you are looking for in a spouse?

In our story from Genesis 24, we see two people fall in love without ever having met each other. How would this ever work? Because Isaac and his family knew what they were looking for in a spouse. Abraham had a list of character qualities that were to be in Isaac’s future wife. Now, God may not have someone that fits all your qualities, but praying and knowing what qualities you seek allows you not to settle.

What are your top three priorities? Share them with your parents and ask for their thoughts.